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Sheryl Sandberg wants to ban 'bossy' for little girls
By the time they hit middle school, young girls are less likely than boys to want to be leaders.
Mon, Mar 10, 2014 at 09:30 PM
What's in a word? More than you might think. Sheryl Sandberg
is so bothered by one word in particular that she wants to ban it altogether - especially when it comes to how that word is used to describe little girls
The word is 'bossy,' and Sheryl Sandberg has recently launched the 'Ban Bossy
,' campaign to encourage parents and kids to think more carefully about the how that word is used when it comes to young women.
In her recent editorial for the Wall Street Journal
, Sandberg goes so far as to call it 'the other b-word.' And she's right. The word 'bossy' has a negative connotation that penalizes girls who stick up for themselves, share their ideas, or voice their opinions.
From the Ban Bossy website:
When a little boy asserts himself, he's called a “leader.” Yet when a little girl does the same, she risks being branded “bossy.” Words like bossy send a message: don't raise your hand or speak up. By middle school, girls are less interested in leading than boys—a trend that continues into adulthood. Together we can encourage girls to lead.
Sandberg is hoping to send a message to parents, teachers
, business managers, and especially to little girls, that it is OK for young girls to make their voices heard. And that they shouldn't have to worry about getting stuck with a label just for raising their hand.
As part of her campaign, Sandberg launched the Ban Bossy website which has loads of tips for helping little girls speak up. Here's a PSA from the site - it's a regular who's who of strong women
- all sharing the same message. That it is time to #BanBossy and give girls a voice.
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