Eco-etiquette: Give and take
You don't need to sacrifice your inner-green when buying wedding gifts.
By PlentyMag.comWed, May 13 2009 at 11:16 AM EST
ENVIRONMENTALLY EVER AFTER: It's OK to deviate from the registry in favor of a green gift. (Photo: forbescreative/Flickr) 
Q. My college friends are getting hitched, but they registered at the most un-eco store. Is it rude to skip the list and force a greener gift on them?A. Like them or not, registries are the rage—Americans spend $19 billion on presents from them annually. If you don’t want to put the kibosh on your friends’ wedded bliss, you’ve got two options:
- Choose the greenest item on the registry. These days it’s hard to throw a stone without hitting something sustainable—bamboo sheets, for example, are greener than their cotton counterparts, and cork trivets are more eco (and less Grandma-ish) than rubber ones.
- Back away from the list—far away from the list. For most couples, registering is not so much an expression of desire as it is one of fear—a deep, visceral terror of receiving 150 panini presses. Therefore, it’s acceptable to stray from the registry, so long as you don’t buy a green version of something already on it (then they’ll have two). Get something no one else will have thought of—theater tickets, a massage for two or even a community-supported agriculture (CSA) membership. These options produce only a small carbon footprint, and not a single panini press will be harmed in the process.
Story by Kiera Butler. This article originally appeared in Plenty in October 2008.
Copyright Environ Press 2008
Comments
Emily
07/10/2009 10:28 AM
I wish I could live totally green, but unfortunately it's not that easy. So I put together a wedding gift registry with like half green items and half regular items. I used myregistry.com because you can put whatever you want on there. I suggest making a registry with a place that gives you the most options as possible. You can always just open up a cash gift fund and then spend the moolah on whatever you like.
