A year without spending: One woman's anxieties, missteps and insights
Photo: Angela Barton It's interesting that not buying things has made me focus more on what I DO have. And as I get rid of the crap, it's like lifting a curtain or coming out of a fog. I'm really starting to see how STUFF has kept me busy and distracted, and disconnected from the things that really matter.This recession is making people question a lot about their values, lifestyles and behavior. I think it will have a silver lining if it makes us question our relationship to the planet and the other people living on it. And if it causes us to use a different yardstick to determine how we feel about ourselves.
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Posted By HB Turner - Thu, Dec 03 2009 at 6:52 AM ESTReused or Old
I find I have clogs from a trip out West bought almost 20 years ago and while I can't wear them too long, older feet not the shoes, they are still fine. Tennis shoes sadly don't last 20 years.
Clothes my husband took out of long unopened drawers to donate have become part of my indoor winter wardrobe, not chic but comfortable. At least I wait until he is getting rid of those things I have wanted.
We are lucky, we have the Unclaimed Baggage Store of Oprah's fame 25 miles away so I.... More
Posted By Anonymous - Wed, Oct 07 2009 at 4:43 PM ESTHelp! My books are eating my house!
I have to say, I have been a long time adherant to the philosophy of not buying just for a quick emotional fix to my moments of boredom or stress. I look for greener solutions to clothes shopping, gift giving, home decorating, transportation. I make gifts, use recycled wrappings, buy vintage clothes, or just fewer clothes and make them last longer, found a reasonably priced independent shoe repair shop to fix my boots, rather than buy a new pair. I have boots that I bought thirty years ago,.... More
Posted By edmcki - Tue, Oct 06 2009 at 5:27 PM ESTQuestioning my love of crap
Many thanks to Stephanie and Angela for getting us to think about values, lifestyle and behavior. We could use it.
Posted By Anonymous - Wed, Oct 07 2009 at 5:45 PM ESTUnstuff!
Hey, cool, I didn't know there was a whole movement! I've personally been trying to emulate (while not signing anything!) another really interesting blogger that I follow who also did a Year of Nothing New and continues to try and live "Unstuffed" http://unstuff.blogspot.com/
Posted By MerrieWay - Wed, Jul 29 2009 at 11:34 PM ESTQuality Over Quantity
Pack rats...accumulate and don't give it away, trash it or downsize. Part of the collection phobia is lack. "there won't be enough for me." Shopaholics get a rush out of buying something, often to return items, to purchase other things. Buying on sale, an excuse to buy more than needed - 2 for the price of 1.
MerrieWay solution to shopping: Only buy what you need. Buy second hand - or trade with friends. Buy quality instead of quantity. Back to 'bartering' is not bad!
Posted By Momof2 - Wed, Jul 29 2009 at 4:27 PM ESTOne good thing about the recession...
is that its become a bit more cool not to spend anything. I've always saved on stuff...but now I feel more comfortable saying "I'm completely broke" and everybody nods their heads. This is a really good time to try living with less...you'll never get such great public support again!
Posted By Anonymous - Wed, Jul 29 2009 at 3:03 PM ESTPost-consumer
Here in New Jersey we call ourselves 'Post-consumer':
We know the best things in life are not things.
We refuse to be owned by our possessions
We opt for 'more fun, less stuff'
We hate the mall, where it's all for women age 18-24 anyway.
It's really liberating.
I also think it's well crafted advertising that convinces people to buy stuff they don't need.
Convinces them they can 'save money by spending it'.
Scoff if you want, but I don't need anymore stuff.
Exceptions: Food, Gasoline, CD's,.... More
Posted By Anonymous - Wed, Jul 29 2009 at 9:31 PM ESTwho needs cd's?
just use the internet and an mp3 player


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